Therapy for Men in San Francisco
You’ve built a successful life on paper, but something still feels off. Maybe relationships keep falling apart, work stress is eating away at you, or that inner critic just won’t stop. You’re stuck, and the usual advice isn’t cutting it.
Counseling can help, but there’s a real shortage of male therapists who actually understand what men go through. That’s why I specialize in therapy for men. As a seasoned clinical psychologist, I’ve both navigated my own healing journey and helped hundreds of men do the same.
If you’re looking for a therapist who’s been there and who won’t just sit back and listen while you talk about your problems, I’m your guy. Contact me when you’re ready to start moving past what’s holding you back and create real, lasting change.
Meet your San Francisco men's therapist
Dr. Ron Burg
I’ve been doing this work for over 27 years and have logged around 30,000 sessions with men from all walks of life. I’m not your typical therapist—I combine science, intuition, and a no-nonsense, results-focused approach. We won’t just “explore.” We’ll get to the root of what’s going on and make real progress—fast.
Offers men's counseling ✓
Credentials: Licensed Psychologist in California
Clientele: Men ages 24-65
Location: San Francisco, CA 94102 and Palo Alto, CA 94301
Virtual therapy?: Yes, across California
What to expect
1. Free intro call
We’ll start with a quick 15-minute conversation to get a feel for working together. I’ll ask about what’s going on to make sure it’s something I can genuinely help with.
2. Building momentum
We’ll meet weekly or biweekly to start creating traction. You’ll know pretty quickly if the work feels productive—trust your gut as you attend the first few sessions.
3. Getting unstuck
This is where the deeper work happens. We’ll identify what’s really keeping you stuck and start mapping out how your mind operates. Most men are surprised to learn just how much clarity this brings.
4. Phasing out
As things improve, we’ll meet less often—maybe once a month. You can always come back for a check-in or “tune-up” session anytime.
Common reasons men come to therapy
Your career looks great, but your personal life’s a mess
You keep repeating the same negative relationship patterns
You’re battling a harsh inner critic or constant self-judgment
Work stress and anxiety are taking over
You struggle to communicate or handle conflict in your relationship
You’re stuck in a life transition and need direction
You want to develop emotional intelligence to grow at work
You worry about passing old wounds down to your kids
You’re dealing with depression or low self-esteem
You’re questioning your relationship with alcohol or drugs
You’re facing sexual or intimacy challenges
You feel emotionally disconnected or “stuck in your head”
How therapy for men can help
Build a healthier relationship
Whether you’re struggling to start, maintain, or end relationships, we’ll unpack the dysfunctional patterns you learned growing up that may still be running the show. You’ll learn practical ways to communicate, handle conflict, and connect more deeply—with partners, family, and friends.
Get unstuck at work
Professional roadblocks are often less about skill and more about self-awareness. We’ll look at how you assert yourself, manage stress, and set boundaries so you’re not constantly burning out or chasing unrealistic standards. My clients in tech especially appreciate the balance of logic and intuition I bring to this work.
Quiet your inner critic
That relentless voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough is often a result of painful past experiences that have gone unacknowledged or unprocessed. Together, we’ll trace where it came from and learn to relate to yourself differently. Most men are amazed at how much mental energy they free up once they stop fighting themselves.
Actually feel your feelings
Many men have learned to disconnect from their emotions. We’ll use approaches—including body-based work—to help you reconnect with what’s really happening inside. This isn’t “touchy-feely” therapy—it’s about understanding the unconscious forces that shape your behavior so you can lead with clarity instead of confusion.
FAQs about therapy for men
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It’s not a requirement, but it can help. Only about 15% of therapists are men, and many guys find it easier to open up to someone who understands male psychology from the inside out.
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There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. After 27 years of practice and training in a dozen different modalities, I tailor the process to each client. You don’t need to know what works best—I’ll figure that out with you.
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Think of me as a guide. I’m direct, engaged, and results-oriented—not someone who just nods while you talk. We’ll set clear goals, track progress, and work as a team to get you unstuck.
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Here are a few reasons why my clients choose me:
Nearly three decades of clinical experience
Fast-moving, interactive sessions that get results
A blend of science and intuition
A flexible, integrated toolbox—not a one-size-fits-all approach
Genuine, authentic connection (I’ll tell you what I really think)
Deep understanding of male psychology
Strong reviews from past clients
If you’re looking for a therapist who just listens while you “explore,” I might not be your guy. But if you want someone who’s actively in it with you—helping you move through this stuff efficiently and with care—let’s talk.
Start working with a San Francisco men’s therapist today
You don’t have to keep feeling stuck. Whether it’s relationships, work stress, anxiety, or just that sense that something’s off—let’s figure it out together.