Highly Recommended California Men's Therapist | Ron Burg, Ph.D.
Feeling stuck in your career or relationships? Wrestling with stress, anxiety, or a harsh inner critic that won’t quit? You're not alone—and you don't have to figure it out on your own. As a male psychologist with nearly three decades of experience working specifically with men, I help guys like you cut through the noise, understand what's really going on, and make the changes that matter.
Meet your therapist
Ron Burg, Ph.D.
I specialize in therapy for men in California, bringing together science, intuition, and 30,000+ sessions of experience to help you get unstuck. With training in everything from psychoanalysis to somatic work, my approach is tailored to what actually works for you—not just dry, cookie-cutter therapy—so you see real results, fast.
Credentials: Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Location: San Francisco, CA & Palo Alto, CA
Virtual therapy?: Yes, across California
What sets me apart from other male therapists in California
Let's face it: male therapists are hard to find, which is why I've made it my focus to work specifically with guys who want a therapist who gets them from the inside out. I've been doing this work since 1998, and I bring a unique combination of deep expertise, lived experience, and an approach that actually moves the needle.
27 years in practice with roughly 30,000 sessions completed, which means I've seen just about everything.
I've done the work myself—extensive personal therapy and training to make sure I’m showing up as my best self in session.
Accelerated, results-oriented approach. Guys who've had other therapists say mine is different: more interactive, directed, and faster
Highly trained across multiple modalities. I'm not locked into one school of thought; I use what works.
Balance of science and intuition, which is especially valued by guys in tech who appreciate both analytical and intuitive approaches.
Safe space for gay and bisexual men with someone who gets them. I provide a judgment-free environment where you can talk openly about anything.
I don't just sit back and take notes. We'll work as a team to identify what's actually getting in your way and make concrete progress toward your goals.
What I help men with
Younger professionals who are crushing it at work but whose personal lives are a mess
Guys struggling with a persistent inner critic or other self-sabotaging patterns
Men frustrated in their relationships—or lack thereof
Anxiety, stress, and feeling overwhelmed by life's demands
Developing emotional intelligence to advance further at work and in life
Navigating life transitions and figuring out what comes next
Fathers who don't want to pass on negative patterns to their own kids
Gay and bisexual men reevaluating the role of drugs, alcohol, or other coping mechanisms
Men dealing with the impact of childhood trauma or dysfunctional family dynamics
What to expect from the therapy process
Step 1.
Free initial consultation
We'll start with a brief intro meeting so you can get a feel for what it's like to work with me. I'll ask about what you're looking for and make sure it's something I can help with.
Step 2.
First 3-4 sessions: Building momentum
If it feels right after our intro, we'll meet for a few sessions to see if we can build some momentum that feels worthwhile. Trust your gut on whether this is clicking.
Step 3.
Regular sessions: Doing the work
Depending on your needs, we'll typically meet weekly or every other week. We'll work together to identify what's stuck and start making the internal changes that lead to real shifts in your life.
Step 4.
Phasing out & tune-ups
After we've made good progress, guys often start spacing out meetings to around once a month—and you're always welcome to check back in for a tune-up or just to run something by me.
FAQs about therapy for men
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Not necessarily, but many men prefer it. Working with a male therapist can make it easier to talk openly about certain topics, especially around masculinity, sexuality, relationships, and emotions. There's often less explaining needed—as a man myself, I just get it.
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A psychologist has a Ph.D. and extensive training in how the mind works, including years of supervised clinical experience. Therapists (also called counselors) typically have a master's-level education along with extensive supervised clinical experience. Basically, psychologists can also be therapists, but not all therapists are psychologists.
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We meet via secure video call. You can be anywhere in California with a private space and good internet. Most guys find online therapy just as effective as in-person—sometimes more so, since you're in your own comfortable space.
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Absolutely. I use HIPAA-compliant platforms and follow all the same confidentiality standards as in-person therapy. What we discuss stays between us, with very limited exceptions required by law (like if someone's in imminent danger).